refactor: 标准化项目结构 frontend/ + backend/ + SQLite + run.sh

- 目录重构: app/ -> frontend/，与 backend/ 并列
- 数据库: 默认 SQLite（零配置），修复 DSN() bug
- run.sh: 一键启动前后端，支持 start/stop/restart/status
- Makefile: install/dev/build/lint/clean 快捷命令
- vite.config.ts: 配置 dev server 端口 5173 + API 代理到 8080
- config.yaml: SQLite 默认配置，开箱即用
- docs/: 完整开发文档（项目结构/API/数据库/规范/部署）
- 修复: GORM foreign key 关联声明
- 修复: go get gorm.io/driver/sqlite 依赖

backend/go.sum

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+github.com/mattn/go-sqlite3 v1.14.22 h1:2gZY6PC6kBnID23Tichd1K+Z0oS6nE/XwU+Vz/5o4kU=
+github.com/mattn/go-sqlite3 v1.14.22/go.mod h1:Uh1q+B4BYcTPb+yiD3kU8Ct7aC0hY9fxUwlHK0RXw+Y=
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@@ -128,8 +130,8 @@ golang.org/x/sys v0.0.0-20220704084225-05e143d24a9e/go.mod h1:oPkhp1MJrh7nUepCBc
 golang.org/x/sys v0.6.0/go.mod h1:oPkhp1MJrh7nUepCBck5+mAzfO9JrbApNNgaTdGDITg=
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 golang.org/x/sys v0.16.0/go.mod h1:/VUhepiaJMQUp4+oa/7Zr1D23ma6VTLIYjOOTFZPUcA=
-golang.org/x/text v0.14.0 h1:ScX5w1eTa3QqT8oi6+ziP7dTV1S2+ALU0bI+0zXKWiQ=
-golang.org/x/text v0.14.0/go.mod h1:18ZOQIKpY8NJVqYksKHtTdi31H5itFRjB5/qKTNYzSU=
+golang.org/x/text v0.20.0 h1:gK/Kv2otX8gz+wn7Rmb3vT96ZwuoxnQlY+HlJVj7Qug=
+golang.org/x/text v0.20.0/go.mod h1:D4IsuqiFMhST5bX19pQ9ikHC2GsaKyk/oF+pn3ducp4=
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@@ -146,7 +148,9 @@ gorm.io/driver/mysql v1.5.2 h1:QC2HRskSE75wBuOxe0+iCkyJZ+RqpudsQtqkp+IMuXs=
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+gorm.io/driver/sqlite v1.6.0 h1:WHRRrIiulaPiPFmDcod6prc4l2VGVWHz80KspNsxSfQ=
+gorm.io/driver/sqlite v1.6.0/go.mod h1:AO9V1qIQddBESngQUKWL9yoH93HIeA1X6V633rBwyT8=
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-gorm.io/gorm v1.25.5 h1:zR9lOiiYf09VNh5Q1gphfyia1JpiClIWG9hQaxB/mls=
-gorm.io/gorm v1.25.5/go.mod h1:hbnx/Oo0ChWMn1BIhpy1oYozzpM15i4YPuHDmfYtwg8=
+gorm.io/gorm v1.30.0 h1:qbT5aPv1UH8gI99OsRlvDToLxW5zR7FzS9acZDOZcgs=
+gorm.io/gorm v1.30.0/go.mod h1:8Z33v652h4//uMA76KjeDH8mJXPm1QNCYrMeatR0DOE=
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