refactor: 标准化项目结构 frontend/ + backend/ + SQLite + run.sh

- 目录重构: app/ -> frontend/，与 backend/ 并列
- 数据库: 默认 SQLite（零配置），修复 DSN() bug
- run.sh: 一键启动前后端，支持 start/stop/restart/status
- Makefile: install/dev/build/lint/clean 快捷命令
- vite.config.ts: 配置 dev server 端口 5173 + API 代理到 8080
- config.yaml: SQLite 默认配置，开箱即用
- docs/: 完整开发文档（项目结构/API/数据库/规范/部署）
- 修复: GORM foreign key 关联声明
- 修复: go get gorm.io/driver/sqlite 依赖

frontend/components.json

@@ -0,0 +1,22 @@
+{
+  "$schema": "https://ui.shadcn.com/schema.json",
+  "style": "new-york",
+  "rsc": false,
+  "tsx": true,
+  "tailwind": {
+    "config": "postcss.config.js",
+    "css": "src/index.css",
+    "baseColor": "slate",
+    "cssVariables": true,
+    "prefix": ""
+  },
+  "iconLibrary": "lucide",
+  "aliases": {
+    "components": "@/components",
+    "utils": "@/lib/utils",
+    "ui": "@/components/ui",
+    "lib": "@/lib",
+    "hooks": "@/hooks"
+  },
+  "registries": {}
+}