refactor: 标准化项目结构 frontend/ + backend/ + SQLite + run.sh

- 目录重构: app/ -> frontend/，与 backend/ 并列
- 数据库: 默认 SQLite（零配置），修复 DSN() bug
- run.sh: 一键启动前后端，支持 start/stop/restart/status
- Makefile: install/dev/build/lint/clean 快捷命令
- vite.config.ts: 配置 dev server 端口 5173 + API 代理到 8080
- config.yaml: SQLite 默认配置，开箱即用
- docs/: 完整开发文档（项目结构/API/数据库/规范/部署）
- 修复: GORM foreign key 关联声明
- 修复: go get gorm.io/driver/sqlite 依赖

frontend/src/components/ui/textarea.tsx

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+import * as React from "react"
+
+import { cn } from "@/lib/utils"
+
+function Textarea({ className, ...props }: React.ComponentProps<"textarea">) {
+  return (
+    <textarea
+      data-slot="textarea"
+      className={cn(
+        "border-input placeholder:text-muted-foreground focus-visible:border-ring focus-visible:ring-ring/50 aria-invalid:ring-destructive/20 dark:aria-invalid:ring-destructive/40 aria-invalid:border-destructive dark:bg-input/30 flex field-sizing-content min-h-16 w-full rounded-md border bg-transparent px-3 py-2 text-base shadow-xs transition-[color,box-shadow] outline-none focus-visible:ring-[3px] disabled:cursor-not-allowed disabled:opacity-50 md:text-sm",
+        className
+      )}
+      {...props}
+    />
+  )
+}
+
+export { Textarea }